We all know my love for all things Dermalogica but I have to say that their Daily Clean Scrub is one of the best exfoliants I have tried so far. It's part of their mens line but really anyone can use it ( in fact it was a female friend that recomended it). If you have problems dealing with a multistep cleaning system this is the product for you as it acts both as an exfoliant as well as a cleaner!
I personally use it primarly as an exfoliant at night (every other day) and like that the Silica beads do not feel too coarse but still works well to lift the dead skin. It is also great as a prep for shaving and helps give you a much closer shave. Just use it in the shower beforehand to clean your pores and get the skin ready. Try it out and let me know what your thoughts are!